Showing posts with label Ferguson. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Ferguson. Show all posts

Friday, January 2, 2015

Holding Conflicting Viewpoints

Holding Conflicting Viewpoints ©2015 Joan M. Newcomb

Recently I read an account discussing the issues of #blacklivesmatter.  Specifically, Michael Brown's killing in Ferguson, MO and Eric Garner in Staten Island, NY, both by police.  It was by someone trying to remain neutral.  The author was a conservative trying to have a balanced viewpoint but ended up lessening the accusations of police brutality by glossing over facts in both cases, wanting to typify them as resisting arrest (which actually neither were).

It was a feeble attempt at best, and missed the greater, growing, list of examples, of people of color being murdered in the US by police, when white people are not, under identical circumstances.

I'm not a conservative so I'm not going to pretend to be neutral.

However, my main message to everyone is that we are Consciousness expressing ourselves through physical form, I am going to try to give a bigger perspective.

Here's another example.  Bill Cosby, comedian, archetypal sitcom dad and jello pudding "Pop", has been accused as a rapist.  It's actually gone on for several decades, but now many women are coming out with their story.  Recently his wife and one of his daughters have gone public to say he was a wonderful father and husband.

The women coming forward have much to lose, none would willingly make up a story of being assaulted just for publicity.

It's a genuine conundrum for people who knew him personally as a warm and wonderful guy, to have this side be revealed.

So here's the "middle perspective" of both situations.   There is still prejudice and fear against black people (and specifically black men) in this country.  There are countless examples of police using excessive force.  Actually, that's about as far as I can go with the middle viewpoint.  I think the police 'shoot to kill' unnecessarily and this opens a hornet's nest about gun control...

And for Bill Cosby, his friends, wife and at least one daughter genuinely experience him as the same as his public persona.  Abusers have a shadow side; in his case it has come to light.

In the middle perspective, I don't have any answers.  It's painful and puzzling, to deal with people who are wonderful on one hand (e.g. police who helped out with the Twin Towers on September 11th) and are horrible on the others (e.g. the cops who shot a 12 year old with a BB gun).

Or people who were abusers and whose behaviors have modified.  But have never acknowledged or apologized for their acts.

So, now for the bigger perspective, of Consciousness.

As Consciousness, we are joyous, unlimited, all knowing, expansive, unity.  We created the physical realm as a full immersion, 3D game, to experience the opposite of who we really are.  This world has the limitations of life and death.  It has pain and fear.  It has separation and discord.

As Consciousness we love all of this.  It's like an amusement park.  An Adventure In Density and Effort.  As Consciousness it's fun to embody into different people, places and things.  It's like a movie set where actors are giving Oscar winning performances, and when filming is done, all go to the pub for a drink.

Pain isn't real for Consciousness.  But it's VERY real for our body/personalities.

When you're flying in an airplane and see cars on the road, you don't sense their inhabitants thoughts or feelings.  But it doesn't mean that they don't exist.

Consciousness holds space for all of creation, beyond time or space.  All lifetimes are happening at once.

We are both Consciousness, and our individual body/personality.  Each of us is a conflicting viewpoint, of a body preoccupied with it's own survival, and Consciousness focusing into form.

Forgiveness is an attempt to reconcile this conflict, from a body/personality perspective.

Acceptance is another way.  Body/personalties can accept the things they cannot change - which is everything outside of their individual thoughts, feelings and actions.

Consciousness doesn't have to forgive, it holds all of this in such expansive neutrality.

As Consciousness, I can have seemingly conflicting viewpoints.  I can compassionately hold space for victims, as well as abusers.

As Consciousness, I am not betraying the part of myself that was violated as a child or a partner in the storyline of my life, by holding a bigger space with those that committed acts against me.

As Consciousness, I am able to encompass everyone and all of it.

This world is an ocean of experiences.  I can sail it with Consciousness, or I can sink into the darkest depths.  (Scuba diving is fun, but you have to come up for air sometime)!

If we all began to navigate our lives from Consciousness, we would soon not have any conflicts to hold.  It would all be synchronised and harmonious. We could be unique and different and each have everything we want without depriving others.

We can get there, we are getting there.  We are Consciousness evolving, we are the light coming into this world.   Holding ourselves each as Consciousness is how we start.

Friday, December 5, 2014

Rapists and Racists, What the HELL Is Going ON??

Rapists and Racists, What the HELL Is Going ON?? ©2014 Joan M. Newcomb

It certainly seems like we're all going to hell in a hand basket.  We've had several instances of white police murdering innocent black people.  We've had everyone's favorite jello pudding Pop turn out to be a creepy and frightening rapist (and he's now counter-suing one of his victims).  It's really all too, too much.

So, here's what's going on:  the more enlightened we collectively become, the more extreme and insane things will come to the surface.

Increased light reveals what's been in the shadows.  Increased enlightened individuals means things can't be hidden any longer.  We are empowered to speak out.  We feel entitled to justice.  When things are not ok, we call them out.

50-60 years ago, it was ok to hit your kids with a ruler, or a hairbrush.  It was "kind" of a parent to hit them with their bare hand, "because it hurt them, too".  (Way to add dose of guilt on top of your abuse)!

Shit like that doesn't fly anymore.

Restrictions (limiting thoughts, ideas, and attitudes) are disintegrating, because they cannot hold the higher and lighter vibration that is incarnating on the planet right now.  People who identify with those constraints are very uncomfortable.  Those with an externalized source of power feel very threatened.  They are frightened.  Their identities, their egos, are dying.

They are making a lot of noise to keep things as they are, they are trying to hold on to reins attached to an empty harness.

You cannot stop evolution.  You can't even slow it down.  It is a glacier heading towards the ocean, changing the topography as it moves.  Try pushing back the glacier.

Put your skis on and ride the glacier, you'll have a whole lot of fun.  Go with the floe.

However, everyone nowadays is experiencing some discomfort as they bring stuff up to be released.  Buried family patterns are coming to the surface, repressed memories are reflected to you in the news.  How do you 'let it go'?

Here's a couple techniques that may help.   When you're watching the news, imagine a stream of bubbles popping (you can blow real bubbles if you want).  Each bubble represents a thought, a memory, a mental image picture, that you want to let go of.  You don't have to examine each one.  You will find yourself feeling much clearer if you do this on a regular basis!

This one is new.  Imagine a 3-D picture frame lifting out of you.  Bring it out and examine it.  Move it around.  It shifts, it's loose, you can change it's dimensions. You can bring it back in, if you like, or send it out to orbit.  Notice what happens when you do.  Notice how things feel.

The picture frame represents an inner pattern you are changing or clearing.  You don't have to know what it is.  It's better not to know, as it opens you up to greater possibilities of expansion.

Play with this for the next week.  Be whimsical about this.  And, be surprised by the results!